A Sensual Massage that Actually Relaxes
- Posted on
About sensual massages...
Intimate touching releases the hormone that makes people horny. Erotic massages are great for foreplay. These massages don’t have to end in traditional sex. This can also be an opportunity to bound with your partner. An intimate touching after work may help your lover relax after a tough day at work and show that you care.
It's important to ask what they want from the massage before you start. See what they want to get out of this and share what you would like too. Establish no touch zones early on and check in periodically.
Setting the mood can promote a better experience. Pull the blinds, dim the lights, and light candles. Play easy to listen to music and create a relaxing ambiance. Be careful with candles. Burnt hair does not smell very sexy. Remove distractions and the stressors of day-to-day life. No phones, no pets, clean up and declutter the message space. If you have any projects or work papers out, put em away. Basically, remove anything that invokes the feeling of stress.
The most important tool is lotion or oil to help reduce friction. Make sure to find oils that allergy friendly if you partner has issues. Pick one with them that they like the smell of to avoid fragrance sensitivities.
Do not use scented oil on the surface of genitals. The compound used for fragrances can irritate the skin. Use fragrance free oils instead. Coconut oil is a great choice, as long as you don’t mind the smell of coconut. If you want to penetrate with your fingers for an internal message, use lube. You can use oil but some people react negatively to oil inside them. Important note to not get oil on latex condoms or dental dams. Oil + latex basically = unprotected sex.
Take it slow and enjoy each others company.
We sell candles, lubes, oils + more. We recommend visiting the store so you can smell them and find your perfect scent!