How to Use Foreplay to Set the Mood
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What is foreplay, and what are some things you can do to set the mood? Read more to find out!
For many, foreplay is a type of intimacy that comes before sex. However, it doesn't have to limited to an awkward "are you ready yet?" There are many ways to set the mood, and foreplay can be physical, emotional, and psychological!
What is Foreplay?
Many people believe that foreplay is a type of sex that is supposed to happen before penetrative intercourse. But foreplay does not have to be limited to the the 5 or 10 minutes before having sex. It can be hours long, and should be thought of as a continuous process of a combination of sexual and non-sexual, physical, emotional, and psychological things we do with our partners to feel close to them. It's essential for getting in the mood for sex! While foreplay takes place right before intercourse, it can look different for different people.
Foreplay can be all the small actions and interactions you have with your partner in between your sexual sessions. It's the glances, sweet compliments, holding hands while you go on a walk, and helping your partner do something when they ask, that creates a particularly steamy mood later on.
Types of foreplay:
Flirting: Compliments, making silly jokes, and overall showing your partner that you find them desirable.
Kissing: Anything ranging from a brief peck on the cheek, a forehead kiss, or a full make-out session.
Touching: Holding or caressing your partner's hand, playing with their hair, touching their cheek, or massaging their shoulders.
Sexting: Sending a cute, cheeky, or steamy message letting them know how you feel about them or what you want to do to them.
Consuming erotic material: Reading erotica, listening to audio erotica, or watching ethical porn together.
Taking a bath or a shower together: Washing each other's hair or bodies can be intimate without being sexual.
Complimenting your partner: Telling them when they look nice, or how good their outfit looks.
Cuddling: Cuddling on the sofa while watching a movie together.
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