If you’ve ever dealt with sexual anxiety, you’ll know it's the last thing you want in bed. Even if the lighting is just right and the music is sultry, you’re hit with this immediate sense of panic and hypersensitivity, and all things sexy just start to feel wrong.
Talking about sex is hard. Telling the person you love that you're not happy with your sex life is even harder.
It's unfortunate that so many people regard foreplay as if it were a flight layover—that is, the place you stop by really quickly on the way to your final destination. But, since many of us understand foreplay to be the opening act for penetrative sex, the mind-set isn't surprising. After all, the word foreplay literally means “before play."
Things to keep in mind when indulging in sex and drugs.
From heavy petting to mutual masturbation to oral sex, outercourse opens up infinite avenues for pleasure.
