Sex and Substances

A lot of things in this article are probably things we already know, but it's always good to have a reminder. Safety is our #1 priority (#2 is having fun). I'm framing this article with the idea of going out to a bar/club, so some of these "rules" aren't applicable if you're staying home. Safe sex applies everywhere though.

 

 

Things to do before leaving the house

-Let your friends know where you plan on going.

• • -Keep them updated if you're changing plans.

-Eat a balanced meal.

• • -Heavy food is going to make you feel extra bad after a night of drinking. Vitamin C really helps with the morning after.

-Pack some condoms.

• • -Avoid condom storage in wallets as friction can damage them overtime.

 

 

Things to remember when out

-Stick with you group and travel together.

• • -Always let them know where you're going.

Drink slowly and have water between drinks.

-Don't take any drinks or drugs from strangers.

-Test your drugs and learn how to reduce risks of overdosing.

-Don't mix substances.

-It's always ok to say no.

• • -Don't let anyone pressure your into doing things you don't want to.

 

 

Things to remember when leaving

-Absolutely no driving after any substances.

-Leave in a group.

• • -If you're leaving with someone you just met, trust your instinct.
  • -Let your friends know where you're going to be.
  • -Never leave in an unmarked cab.
    • →If you're taking an Uber, be sure that the car you're entering is the same as you ordered.

-If you're uncomfortable, tell your friends you'd like to leave.

• • -They can either wait with you for your ride home or go with you.

 

 

Things to remember in the bedroom

-Use those condoms you brought with you.

-Consent is always key.

• • -Discuss what you would like to do with your partner(s), ideally before you use substances.

-You can always change your mind.

• • -If you said "yes" to sex earlier, it doesn't mean you have to say yes now.
  • -Saying "stop" is also perfectly acceptable.

-Respect yourself and others.

 

 

Things that apply everywhere

-No means no.

-Maybe is a no.

-Anything but a yes is a no.