SEX DRIVES AND COMPROMISE
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There are so many reasons couples may be running at different speeds sexually or reasons your body is just not in a place for sex when your partner is good too go. There are also many ways to bridge those gaps so you and your partner are both happy and on the same page.
1.COMMUNICATION- the one thing to do before anything else goes down. Talk about your mental health, maybe you started a new med and need to slow down for a few weeks or maybe you’re not up for intense BDSM scenes that day. If your partner seems off ask them what’s wrong and give them time and space if they need it.
2. NOT JUST P in V- If you’re in a heterosexual relationship penetrative sex can play a big role in your sex life. If one partner is not up for that due to stress or a medical condition there are so many other options. Digital sex with the addition of gloves for more protection. Toys that move and do the work for you! Mutual masturbation is also a great option as it can be a lazy alternative and has no risk of STI’s or pregnancy.
3. SET A MOOD- If your wanting to try more with your partner but your head just isn’t in it try and set the mood a bit more than you normally would. Go to a strip club together to get turned on together. Show them your favourite porn. Tell each other about your fantasies. Try new methods to turn you on in different ways. If this still doesn’t work go back to step one and make sire you both check in.
Here are some toys and other fun things to help in your quest for mutual satisfaction