Why Use a Strap-On? Well... Let's Find Out!
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Strap-ons are definitely one of the more versatile sex toys out there! Read more to find out.
Strap-on dildos are great for many different reasons!
Reasons include but are not limited to:
- Having vaginal sex
- Having anal sex (which can also be known as pegging)
- Performing oral sex
- Bringing folks gender euphoria / helping folks with gender dysphoria
- Exploring new dominant and submissive dynamics
- Helping penis-havers with erectile issues
- Exploring double penetration
- Sex while wearing a chastity cage
... and much more!
If you're curious about purchasing a strap-on to use with a partner, it's always best to first bring this conversation up with them and ask if they'd be into it, including possible dynamics that can be explored, any boundaries that either party may have, or certain positions or fantasies to explore.
Where to get started?
There's many different types of harnesses and compatible toys. You'll need at least one of each to successfully use a strap on!
Usually, picking a dildo that speaks to you is a great first step. Make sure you're looking at toys that are 'harness compatible' and have a flat or shallow cupped base that can rest comfortably against your body. The goal is to find toys that feel amazing for the receiver and instill confidence in the wearer. If you’re using them vaginally, try starting with something about 1.25” - 1.5” wide, and around 5" in length (or longer, if you feel comfortable!). If you're using it anally, make sure that you use a buttplug and/or fingers first to stretch out the anus (and LOTS of non-silicone based lube!) before penetration with a dildo.
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